Navigating the digital world is increasing complex for children, teens, and adults alike. iPhones, iPads, iTunes, smart phones, tablets, laptops, video games, YouTube, social media apps, Snapchat, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter… the list goes on and on. There are many benefits to the information, connections, and learning opportunities available at our fingertips, but it is important to establish ground rules, expectations, and good habits as kids “grow up digital”.
Developing safe and healthy digital habits is part of both parenting and growing up in the digital age. Here are some helpful tips and resources to help you find your way.
- Establish family rules regarding technology – when, where and how much.
- Teach children digital citizenship and appropriate and inappropriate uses of technology.
- Discuss internet/digital safety – the importance of privacy, the dangers of predators and sexting, and the harmfulness of cyberbullying.
- Review digital material for developmentally appropriate content.
- Set up “tech free zones” – places and times when everyone unplugs to enjoy each other company.
- Help children to find balance in their technology use – make sure there is plenty of time for other activities like playing a game, reading a book, running outside, and relaxation without technology.
- Put electronic devices away at least one hour before bedtime.
- Parents need to model positive behavior, healthy tech habits, and good digital citizenship.
Watch internationally recognized clinical psychologist, school consultant, and author of The Big Disconnect: Parenting in the Digital Age Catherine Steiner-Adair’s talk on how technology affects child development.
Media Rules: Healthy Connections in the Digital Age
Highlights from the Media Rules: Healthy Connections in the Digital Age presentation at Stanford Universality in 2016. The presentation features Dr. Catherine Steiner-Adair and the Co-Founders of Challenge Success, Dr. Denise Pope and Dr. Madeline Levine. This article explores how adults and kids can maintain balance, safety, and positive relationships in the digital age.
YouTube video of Dr. Catherine Steiner-Adair’s
Full recording of the Media Rules: Healthy Connections in the Digital Age presentation at Stanford Universality in 2016.
Kids and Tech: Parenting Tips for the Digital Age
In a world where, according to one survey, 81% of toddlers have an online presence by the time they are two, most parents are still confused about how to best manage their children’s relationship with technology. Author Scott Steinberg attempts to answer their questions in a new series of high-tech parenting books called The Modern Parents Guide.
Raising Digital Natives
Raising Digital Natives is the website created by Dr. Deveorah Heitner, PhD, author of Screenwise: Helping Kids to Thrive (and Survive) in Their Digital World. Dr. Hietner covers all aspects of the digital world and helps parents and educators as they mentor children through this new world of digital connectedness.
Teaching Parents Tech
When it comes to technology, parents may seem a little in the dark. Millennials and the generations to follow them were born with devices in their hands and it may seem like parents can never catch up. Sit down with your kids, figure out what they’re getting up to on their devices, and then get to learning—it’s much easier than it looks.
Common Sense Media
Common Sense is the leading independent nonprofit organization dedicated to helping kids thrive in a world of media and technology. They empower parents, teachers, and policymakers by providing unbiased information, trusted advice, and innovative tools to help them harness the power of media and technology as a positive force in all kids’ lives. They offer developmentally age-appropriate, unbiased information so you can decide what media is right for your family.
Common Sense Media – 10 Websites All Kids Should Bookmark
What makes a website bookmark-worth? One that offers solid, supplementary information; adapts to your child’s level; provide fun practice instead of drill-and-kill; and shows videos to explain complex concepts. Check out these 10 bookmark-worthy websites for all ages.
Common Sense Media – Cyberbullying, Haters and Trolls
Age-specific guidelines, videos, and articles to help with tough conversations — whether your kid is a bully or is being bullied. Common Sense Media answers all your cyberbullying questions, offers age-appropriate advice, school resources, and more from parents and experts.
National Crime Prevention Council
Tips for teaching kids social media safety.
Social media tutorials – understanding Facebook, Snapchat, WhatsApp, YouTube
Lucy Jo Palladino – Fearless Focus and Parent Pal
Attention and your brain in the digital age.
Parenting in the age of the attention snatchers.
Parenting in the Age of Attention Snatchers: A Step-by-Step Guide to Balancing Your Child’s Use of Technology
by Lucy Jo Palladino
Lucy Jo Palladino shows that the key is to help kids build awareness and control over their own attention, and in this guide she gives parents the tools to do exactly that, in seven straightforward, evidence-based steps. Parents will learn the best practices to guide children to understand and control their attention—and to recognize and resist when their attention is being “snatched.” This approach can be modified for kids of all ages. Parents will also learn the critical difference between voluntary and involuntary attention, new findings about brain development, and what puts children at risk for attention disorders. Read more…
Screenwise: Helping Kids Thrive (and Survive) in Their Digital World
by Devorah Heitner
Screenwise offers an encouraging perspective on how to thoughtfully guide kids in the digital age. Many parents and educators worry that kids are addicted, detached, or distracted because of their digital devices. Digital Citizenship expert Devorah Heitner, however, believes that technology offers huge potential to our children–if parents help them. Screenwise presents practical parenting “hacks”: quick ideas that you can implement today that will help you understand and relate to your digital native. The book empowers parents to recognize ways that wisdom that they have gained throughout their lives is a relevant and urgently needed supplement to their kid’s digital savvy.
The Big Disconnect: Protecting Childhood and Family Relationships in the Digital Age
by Catherine Steiner-Adair, EdD and Teresa H. Barker
Have iPads replaced conversation at the dinner table? What do infants observe when their parents are on their smartphones? Should you be your child’s Facebook friend? As the focus of family has turned to the glow of the screen—children constantly texting their friends, parents working online around the clock—everyday life is undergoing a massive transformation. Parents often feel they are losing a meaningful connection with their children. Children are feeling lonely and alienated. The digital world is here to stay, but what are families losing with technology’s gain? Read more…